Ever since I was a little girl I always Imagine for my wedding dress to be like that I always thought of the good things rather than the bad things that can happen in a marriage like a Nice Family, Love and a new Beginning, But can the new beginning be a terrible mistake or can my new beginning only means a new beginning to great sex. Recently I was listening to the radio which was odd because I rarely like to listen to the junk they talk on the air but today the question of the day caused many people to question their Marriage and It caused some to question Marriage. Would you rather have Bad sex with a Good Marriage or Good sex with a Bad Marriage? So I decided to Blog about this because of course this was one of the bad things I thought can happen in a Marriage. while listening to some of the callers I was surprise to Know that most picked Good sex with a Bad Marriage but having Good sex is an Important part in a relationship Good sex can keep the "Sparks Flying" and It can make you and your partner more physically intimate with each other but having a bad Marriage can hurt the children and the Marriage.The children seeing parents emotionally detached can affect a child's life and being emotionally detached can also cause lead your partner to seek out to something or someone else.While Marriage is Important Most callers thought Sex overruled. I guess sex does rule everything.
Have you ever " Faked it" in bed? Most of us have but Imagine Faking it for the rest of your lives. Well other listeners thought that having a Good Marriage can also be an important part in a relationship but what about in the Bedroom can you wish for the perfect night but only be given a Two hump job. Having bad sex can also cause you to be detached from tour partner as I explain in the first paragraph being emotionally or phyiscally detached can also hurt a Marriage and it can also cause for your partner to seek out to someone or something else but is it worth It. IS sex really worth having a Bad Marriage for you can always pick up a magazine on 50 ways to improve your sex life and you can always Improve and try new things.Jeopardizing your Marriage for a Great 2 hours and a Sweaty body with messy sheets isn't much. These callers felt if your Marriage id good then it can overrule Bad sex... Or can it?
Marriage is such a complicated union. So many emotions and personalities fighting to be on top. Love, hate, trust, doubt, lust, greed, giving, caring... The list can go on and on... Everyone knows someone who's been married for more than 10-20+ plus years. They all say the same thing. We've had our ups and downs but we love each other and that's what keeps us going. I believe that. It's living proof telling it right to my face... But I can't imagine falling in love with someone who's bad in bed. Love without passion? Passion gave birth to love. I may be wrong but one of many factors one considers marrying another is how well they perform in bed and I said one of many not only... But it's up there on the list. But take a few years down the line, Passion passed away. What's left is love... What then became of sex?... We've had our ups and downs but we love each other and that's what keeps us going...
ReplyDeleteThis is Crazy because I recently has a convo with someone about this same concept. Me, myself would never stay in something I am not happy in especially if I have children. I canvt be 100% myself and happy focusing on the most important things in my life if I am unhappy. For my children and especially for myself I deserve to be happy. Alot of times peopke get in relationships or even marriages and loose themselves they scarfice alot and mostly there happiness I refuse to do that. So basically I would not pick any of the above to opinions but instead I choose happiness.
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